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Showing posts with label Friday. Show all posts

Friday, June 24, 2016

Making Family Memories

At my writers critique group, Tuesday's Children, one of our group expressed that her eight-year-old granddaughter was moving back and she wasn't sure what kinds of activities to do with her. She confessed feeling a bit jealous of the other grandma who did extravagant, and even expensive, things with her. How could she compete with that?

The answer? You don't. We decided that what our kids and grandkids need most from us is time, and sometimes just doing ordinary things with us. Our conversation turned to what we do with the children in our lives or what we remember about our own childhoods.

Uno card game
One mentioned that they play Redneck Uno. It's their own made-up version of the card game. Every time someone draws a particular card, they have to come up with a Redneck joke. You know the kind..."You might be a Redneck if... " This has produced lots of laughs and a sense of family within their clan.

Another spoke of how they all love baseball, but cheer for different teams. There's a friendly competitiveness as they root for their players. This family goes to games together, as well as watches them on TV. They know the rules of the game and lots of stats about their teams and their players. They've even been known to plan vacations around visiting baseball fields around the country. Such fun!

One confessed she loved to play poker as a child. Her father was a gambler and she learned to play young. However, she managed to avoid the addiction of gambling and her family enjoys playing the game together with low stakes.

The husband of one of our group reminisces about how he loved fishing with his father. The special time together and the anticipation of the catch was enough to make this a happy memory even though he hates eating fish!

Fishing with dad
My family loves playing games together. Our new favorite is Dutch Blitz, a fast-paced card game. We have also raised our family on Candyland, Monolopy Jr., Skip-Bo, Uno, Go Fish, Scattegories, and Taboo. Another favorite that even the youngest children can play is Spot It!

All these activities foster family unity, fun, and make memories. They don't cost much, except your time. There are so many things to do with children from taking walks, playing at the park, baking cookies, or jumping rope.

What do you like to do with the children in your life? What special memories do you have of time spent with your parents or grandparents?

Linda

Friday, May 27, 2016

Share Your World - 2016 Week 12

In response to Cee's Photography Share Your World Challenge.

Wanting something to quench your thirst, what would you drink?
I'd drink water. I try to drink at least two twenty-four ounce water bottles each day. But otherwise, my answer would be iced tea or Diet Coke.

What made you feel good this past week?
Seeing my daughter and her family again. They just moved back in the area after living out of state for two years. So thankful to have them close again.

When you’re alone at home, do you wear shoes, socks, slippers, or go barefoot?
I wear either flip-flops or my soft, flip-flop slippers. I like to call them flipper-slippers. I used to be a barefoot girl, but my feet hurt now when I go barefoot. Stupid aging.

Would you rather live where it is always hot or always cold?
I love the heat, which is a good thing since I live in Arizona. So always hot for me!

Linda


Friday, April 22, 2016

Share Your World - 2016 Week 9

Have you done something you truly want to do today?
Yep. I really wanted to get all my blog posts for next week written and scheduled and I did! And take a nap. Naps are always good.

What can you help the world with?
I can continue to guide my children, even though they're grown, in a way of love, compassion, and giving back. I can do the same for my grandchildren. I can be a soft place for people to land when they encounter difficult times or simply need a listening ear. I can share the hope that is within me, Jesus Christ.

If life was ‘just a bowl of cherries’…which fruit other than a cherry would you be?
I would probably be a strawberry. I eat strawberries every morning for breakfast, along with blueberries or blackberries and half a banana. Then I pour a bit of heavy whipping cream and sugar-free hazelnut creamer over it. Delicious. It's my cereal of choice.

Berry breakfast
Quotes List: List at least three of your favorite quotes.
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV).  That’s my life verse. Here are a few other favorites.

If God is for us, who can be against us? Romans 8:31 (NIV).

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28 (NIV).

For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength. Philippians 4:13 (NLT).

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16 (NIV).


No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:37-39 (NIV).

You may wonder why all my quotes are scriptures. It's because they're the ultimate, absolute truth, which is what any other quote only aspires to. They are God-breathed and His Word never fails. Never. I know of no other quote, no matter how cute, pithy, or poignant, can live up to that. Not to mention that scripture is life-changing when practiced regularly in everyday life.

Bonus question: What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to the week ahead? I'm grateful for the opportunity to speak life and hope into the lives of scared pregnant girls who come into the Choices Pregnancy Center where I volunteer. I'm beyond thankful and humbled I got to pray with two of the girls last week. I look forward to a ladies luncheon on Saturday with the women from my church.

Have a wonderful, safe weekend! Don't forget to worship the One who gives you life!

Linda


Friday, April 15, 2016

Share Your World - 2016 Week 8

What household chore do you absolutely hate doing?
I hate cleaning the bathroom, especially the bathtub and/or shower. Ugh. So hard to reach for a short girl like me and so gross with hair in it. I'm shivering at the very thought of it.

What was the last URL that you bookmarked?
Now that it's baseball season again, I had to bookmark my Arizona Diamondbacks homepage so I can keep up with all the games, news, and most importantly, the standings. http://arizona.diamondbacks.mlb.com/index.jsp?c_id=ari 

Close your eyes. Listen to your body. What part of your body is seeking attention? What is it telling you? 
Uh, honestly? My bladder is telling me I have to go to the bathroom. See ya!

Would you rather have a two-bedroom apartment in a big city of your choosing or a mansion in the countryside in the state or country where you currently live?
Neither, really. Mansions aren't my style, but I think the second option is my pick. I'd rather have a cabin in the mountains of Arizona where my family and friends could come visit. It would be large enough to host church retreats and special events but not overly fancy. Rustic is the name of the game. Lots of wood, a fireplace, wrap-around deck, you know, lodge-like. This one would do.
Photo courtesy of Backwoodsloghomes.com
Bonus question: What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up? I'm grateful that I was able to reach my fundraising goal for the Crisis Pregnancy Center's Walk for Life. I have the most generous friends and virtual friends! What I'm looking forward to is the Walk for Life on Saturday. I won't actually be walking because they needed volunteer help in the center, handing out water bottles and directing people to restrooms and such. Should be a fun day spent assisting this worthy ministry in its largest fundraiser of the year.

Have a great weekend!

Linda



Friday, April 1, 2016

Share Your World - 2016 Week6

  1. What is your favorite word? My favorite word is probably grace. It frees me from feeling like I have to live a perfect life as a Christian. Yet it doesn't give me an excuse to not to shine the love of Christ into a hurting world. It reminds me that because of Jesus and His forgiveness, I'm enough in all my imperfection.
  2. What is your least favorite word? Judgment. I hate it when people judge others when we all have issues we're dealing with. None of us are getting life exactly right. Let's extend grace (my favorite word) and try to lead each other in the right direction by loving, not judging.
  3. What turns you on creatively, spiritually, or emotionally?  Seeing someone else being creative, or spiritual, or emotionally genuine. It makes me want to follow suit. 
  4. What turns you off? I hate it when people don't do things for themselves. When people expect you to think for them, do things for them that they're perfectly capable of doing. It's as if they think their time is more valuable than yours. Boils down to arrogance, which is another one of my least favorite words.
  5. What is your favorite curse word? I'm not a fan of curse words. I think a person who uses them generally lacks creativity in expressing themselves. By never using them, I don't run the risk of offending someone with my language. I hate being offensive.
  6. What noise do you love? I love the noise of laughter.  Especially children's. 
  7. What noise do you hate? I hate most noise. I'd much prefer it to be quiet, even silent. When I'm home during the day, I don't play music, watch TV, or anything else that adds noise to my day. Too much noise makes me crazy. Peace and quiet, please.
  8. What profession other than your own would you like to attempt? I think I'd enjoy being a counselor to young people. I'm getting a tiny taste of that in my volunteer work at the Choices Pregnancy Center and really enjoy listening to people and trying to help them. 
  9. What profession would you not like to do? A plumber. I can think of nothing grosser.
  10. What would you like to hear God say when you meet Him face to face? You used the gifts I put inside you to bring Me glory. Your life was an extension of Me and impacted those around you. You loved people the way I wanted you to. I'm proud of you.
Bonus question: What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up? I'm grateful for the news that we have a new grandbaby (#8!) due in October and that my daughter and her family are moving back to Arizona in the next couple of months. Can't wait to hug those seven grandchildren again! I'm looking forward to a less busy weekend. The last few have been jam-packed!

Linda


Friday, March 25, 2016

Share Your World - 2016 Week 5


If you had a shelf for your three most special possessions (not including photos, electronic devices, and things stored on them, people, or animals), what would you put in it?
My Bible, my wedding ring, my glasses, so I can see the beauty all around me.

If you had a box labeled ‘happiness,’ what would you put in it? 

  • A jar of bottled sunshine. Nothing makes me happier than warmth. 
  • Pictures of my family, who give me more joy than one person deserves. 
  • Someone to help, because there's no greater joy than giving of oneself.
What do you want more of in your life?
I want more of Jesus in my life. I find that the more I become like Him, the more my life has meaning. I become less me focused, and more others focused. When I keep my eyes on Him, I can see the rest of my life in better perspective.

Daily Life List: What do you do on an average day? Make a list of your usual activities you do each day.

  1. Shower, make my bed.
  2. Feed the dogs.
  3. Eat my strawberry, blueberry, and banana fruit bowl with a cup of coffee with sugar-free hazelnut cream while I read my Bible.
  4. Post my blog posts on social media.
  5. Check e-mail and Facebook.
  6. Write blog posts for the following week.
  7. Throw in some laundry.
  8. Do dishes.
  9. Get the mail.
  10. Fold and put away laundry.
  11. Work on my writing project.
  12. Make supper.
  13. Watch TV with the hubby.
  14. Crochet or play computer games while I watch TV.
  15. Go to bed around 11.
The only regular variation on that is on Monday mornings I volunteer as a peer counselor at Choices Pregnancy Center from 8:30-1:00. And on Tuesday mornings I go to my writer's critique group, Tuesday's Children, from 9:00-12:00. Some days I substitute going to the grocery store or some other errand that needs to be run instead of doing laundry. At some point I also do bookkeeping for my husband's computer company. I wear lots of different hats around here.

Bonus question: What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?
I'm grateful we found an RV my daughter can travel in while she works with the Renaissance Fair at a price she could afford. Now for the fun of fixing it up! I'm also grateful to be getting over this cold that started Monday afternoon.  I look forward to Easter weekend, the great celebration of my risen Lord and Savior, Jesus!

Linda


Friday, March 18, 2016

Share Your World - 2016 Week 4

What one thing are you really glad you did yesterday?
I'm really glad I got around 1300 words written on the next chapter in my book. That is nothing less than answered prayer. So to my faithful prayer warriors who know how I'm struggling with this book, thank you! Also glad that I finished my second crochet project, a prayer shawl that turned out much wider and heavier than I anticipated. But I'm getting better at this new craft, so I'm pressing on to project number three.

Are you generally focused on today or tomorrow?
I'm usually focused on today, because if I don't take care of today's things, it affects tomorrow. That means I plan today what I need to do so my tomorrow runs more smoothly. So maybe I'm focused on both?

Would you want a guardian angel/mentor? What would they tell you right now?
I've always loved this guardian angel picture. I believe I do have lots of guardian angels. Here's what the Bible says about that:
"For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways" (Psalm 91:11).
"See that you do not despise one of these little ones. For I tell you that in heaven their angels always see the face of my Father who is in heaven" (Matt. 18:10). 
What my angels would tell me is not to put my trust in them, but in the God who commands them. He is the only One worthy of my complete trust and angels can do nothing without Him.

Would you rather live in a cave house or a dome house made out of glass? 
This is a tricky one for me. I tend to be claustrophobic, so a cave house might be out (you can read about that here). But I'm also a very private person who wouldn't like a see-through glass house. I suppose curtains could fix that though. And I do love sunshine pouring into my house. So I guess I'd rather live in a glass dome house. Bring on the window coverings. I might be able to manage one like this.

Bonus question: What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up? (Because we all need to be reminded that there are many things in our lives to be grateful about.)
I'm grateful for little bits of news that give me hope and things to look forward to. News from family, new opportunities to work and serve all encourage me and give me purpose. Next week I'm looking forward to my church's Good Friday service, which always puts my mind and heart in the right place to celebrate with gusto on Easter Sunday.

Linda


Friday, March 11, 2016

Share Your World - 2016 Week 3

(In response to Cee's Photography Share Your World Challenge,)

What is your favorite piece of art? (It doesn't have to be famous.)
My favorite piece of art is any that my grandchildren give me. It doesn't have to be perfect. It's actually better if it isn't. But when it's given with pride and a heart full of love, it instantly becomes a priceless masterpiece.
Grandkid art
What made you smile today?
Looking at campers online for my daughter to buy to travel with the Renaissance Festival.

What place do you recommend as a must-see? Please state which country, state or province.
One of my all-time favorite vacation spots is Rum Point Beach in Grand Cayman. It's the perfect spot to relax and watch the sun set.

Sunset at Rum Point Beach
Complete this sentence. When I was younger I used to...
...bite my fingernails. I'm not sure when or why or how I stopped, but I did.

Bonus question: What are you grateful for from last week and what are you looking forward to to in the week coming up? (Because we all need to be reminded that there are many things in our lives to be grateful about.)
I'm grateful for a job I love and out-of-state relatives to lunch with. I'm looking forward to traveling to California with some fellow church members. We'll visit a sister church in need of some encouragement and lead their worship service.

Have a great weekend! And as always, thank you for reading!

Linda

Friday, March 4, 2016

Share Your World - 2016 Week 2

Do you believe in extraterrestrials or life on other planets?
I don't know if there are extraterrestrials or life on other planets, but I believe there certainly could be. God created a vast universe beyond our comprehension and I think His creative process was not limited to planet Earth. We may never know in this life the answer to those questions, but I certainly think God is big enough to put life on other planets, whether anyone else ever sees it or not.


How many places have you lived? You can share the number of physical residences and/or the number of cities.
I've lived in four states: Indiana, Illinois, Arizona, and Minnesota.
I lived in only one house in Indiana. Two houses in Illinois, both in suburbs of Chicago. Nine houses in Arizona, all in the Phoenix metro area, and one house in Minnesota. And when I say "houses," that includes apartments or townhouses.

If you were given $22 million tax-free dollars (any currency), what is the first thing you'd do?
Thank God! Then I'd start giving it away, starting first with a tithe to my church. I'd enjoy nothing more than sharing my wealth with those I love and those in need.

The Never List: What are things you've never done? Or things you know you'll never do?
I've never sky-dived (dove?) and you can bet I never will. I'll also never participate in the running of the bulls, which I'm sure is one of the stupidest events ever known to man. I'll never quit loving Jesus or living for Him. Same goes for loving my family. I'll never be a concert pianist or a world renowned artist, but I wish I could. This list could go on and on, but I guess I'll stop there.


Bonus question: What are you grateful for from last week and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?
I'm grateful for old friends who came to visit from out of state. Is there anything sweeter than picking right up where you left off and forging even deeper bonds? I think not.

I'm looking forward to celebrating my sister's birthday and seeing one of my nieces who lives clear across the country in Philadelphia. My family will gather at my house for this celebration of life and you can bet there will be lots of laughter, hugs, and love, not to mention good food. I can't wait.

Feel free to answer these questions for yourself in the comments. I'd love to get to know you better!

Linda

Friday, November 13, 2015

Teaching Your Child to Tell the Truth

(This post first appeared on this blog on Sept. 26, 2012)
We've all stood aghast and listened as our child told a whopper of a lie. Sometimes they're so outrageous you don't know whether to laugh or cry! Some lies seem harmless and indeed may be. But others can be signals of a deeper problem with honesty that must be addressed. How to know the difference? And how can you tell for sure when your child is lying and avoid falsely accusing him?
When my children were young I used to ask them one simple question to ferret out lies. I'd say with a smile, "Now is that the truth or is it just a good story?" This paints the child in a good light either way so they're more willing to admit if they just told a lie. It also helps them differentiate the difference between truth and fiction. If it turned out to be "just a good story," I'd say I really liked it, but in this situation, I really need to know the truth. I'd explain it's important to tell the truth when asked so people will know they can trust them. Then I'd ask them again, what the truth is for that situation. They usually were glad to tell the truth then. I made sure to praise them for their honesty and being so trustworthy.
Here are some reasons kids lie:
  • They're afraid of getting in trouble. Who hasn't done this? In our house, the penalty for breaking a rule was greatly reduced or even done away with if they told the truth about it the first time asked.
  • They want to look important. This could signal some self esteem issues. Make sure you praise this child every time you catch them doing something kind, or performing a chore well. Praise them more for character traits you notice than performance. Also, give them some responsibility you know they'll succeed at. Everyone needs a job and a purpose to feel good about themselves. Praise them for their hard work or perseverance, even if the results aren't perfect.
  • They don't know truth from imagination yet. Children younger than five years old may have a hard time knowing what the truth is because their imaginary play world is so real to them. So help them learn what's real from what's pretend before meting out any punishments for lying.
  • To protect someone. This is especially true of older kids. Their friends may do things you wouldn't approve of and your child may lie to keep their actions from you, even if they themselves aren't participating in them. They may fear you'll cut them off from their friend. Assure your child of your love and concern for them as well as for their friend. If possible, partner with them to help the friend. Pray for him and for your child to be a positive influence in their life. Encourage your child to do the same.
Lying can become a prevalent problem that erodes relationships if not addressed when a child is young. Pray for discernment and wisdom as you guide your child toward a life of integrity. And keep a good sense of humor and laugh at the outrageous when it's obvious he's just telling a good story!


Friday, November 6, 2015

Forgiving When Children Disappoint

(This post first appeared on this blog on July 4, 2012. It has been one of my most viewed posts, so I'm rerunning it today.)

No matter how great your kids are, they will probably disappoint you. I'm not talking about small disappointments like forgetting to pick up their toys or clean their room when you ask. I mean deep disappointments that hurt your heart and make you wonder what their future holds.

When they lie to you about where they've been, announce they're pregnant, experiment with drugs, or consistently break curfew, how do you forgive them and keep loving them? Obviously, there are no easy answers. But here are ten things you may want to consider.

  1. Remember your child is trying to find his way in the world. He will make mistakes. Just because he's using bad judgment now doesn't mean he always will. 
  2. Look for any positive quality in your child and focus on it.Let him know you appreciate that quality. For instance, "I love how you're so tender with your girlfriend. You'll make someone a wonderful husband someday." You act as a mirror to your child. Hold up a positive image of him so he can live up to it.
  3. Catch him doing something right and either thank him for it or comment on it. If he picks up his dirty dish and carries it to the sink, thank him. Or say, "You're getting really good at picking up after yourself." Show him you notice the good in him and not just the bad.
  4. Hold him accountable. Let natural consequences be his greatest teacher. If your child won't get up to go to his summer job, let him sleep. Eventually, he'll get written up or fired. Great! This will teach him he must be responsible with his job if he wants to have the money he wants or needs.
  5. Don't make his problem your problem. You can advise, pray, and possibly help, but if he wants to make a bad decision, he will, and there's not much you can do about it. Talk to him about it and decide what the consequences will be.
  6. Speaking of consequences, set them and stick to them. Or better yet, let your child decide what he thinks his consequences should be.Often, they're harder on themselves than you would be.
  7. Pray for your child and let her know you're praying for her. Even if she seems to resent it, I believe deep down, she appreciates it and even expects it.
  8. Keep showing affection. It doesn't have to be hugs and kisses, but a pat on the back, a hand on the shoulder or a smile from across the room convey that you're happy they're your child no matter what you're all going through.
  9. Keep a sense of humor. What would happen if you laughed instead of got mad? How much tension would that eliminate from your home atmosphere? Try it. You'll love the result.
  10. Offer grace. Your child blew it in some way. He expects a punishment of some kind, but seems to be genuinely sorry for what he did. Surprise him by wiping the slate clean. No punishment this time. It's what God did for us when he let Jesus die in our place. We were forgiven when we didn't deserve it and you can give your child the same experience. It sends him a powerful message of how deeply you love him.
When children disappoint us it feels like the end of the world, but it's really not. Keep in mind that most parents disappoint their children, too, so we're all on level ground. Keep loving, laughing, and praying for your child. God has them right where he wants them and is teaching them things an easier path may not have. And don't miss the lessons he's teaching you on this journey. It's all good when it's in God's hands.

How have you coped when your child disappointed you? How have you handled it when you disappointed your child?

Linda


Friday, October 30, 2015

Rest

It's Friday. Are you worn out after a hard week? Then this verse is for you. Sometime this weekend, make time for the One who can give you rest. Give Him your burdens and feel the relief. Open your Bible and read a while. Get out of bed and find a place of worship. Come to Him. Be still and know that He is God. Rest. Have a great weekend!

Linda 

Friday, October 23, 2015

Fall Decorations

Last week I pulled out the fall decorations even though our weather was still in the 90s here in Arizona. One day was even 100. Not exactly fall-like. But the forecast showed the temps dropping into the 80s by the end of the week and maybe even a chance of rain. The weatherman promised that we'd seen our last triple-digit temps.

So I pulled out the fall leaf garlands and wound them around my stairway banister.


I lovingly placed a large basket with orange, gold, and red leaves and flowers, mini pumpkins, and pine cones on my coffee table.


Both were acts of faith, trusting that the temps were indeed going down and fall was just around the corner. Faith in the weatherman? No. Faith in the God of the universe, who orders the seasons and majestically turns the leaves to brilliant fiery hues. That's faith well placed.

Happy Autumn!

Linda

Friday, October 16, 2015

The Bibles I Lost

Bibles given in childhood cultivate a love of God's Word from an early age. They help foster a softness of heart that causes a child to cherish their Bibles into adulthood. When a child has their very own Bible, it helps them own their faith, rather than thinking of it as an extension of their parents'.

I remember my first Bible. I was only a preschooler when my parents gave it to me and I couldn't read a word of it. But I knew how important this book was to my mommy and daddy, so I treated it with great care and love. Back then, there weren't cute kids' Bibles with colorful covers and easy words. No, mine had a sensible black cover with gold letters that said Holy Bible. Its small size fit nicely in my small hands. The King James Version was about all there was then, and I couldn't have loved it more. It was basically a mini-version of my parents' Bibles and I felt very grown up carrying it to and from church.

That is, until I lost it.

I got home and realized I didn't have my Bible. My parents, seeing my distress, were kind enough to retrace the route we'd taken to church in our small town. We saw something on the side of the road and my dad pulled over and parked a short distance away. I ran to the place we'd seen it and there it was, lying in a puddle. I picked it up as tenderly as one would a wounded animal. I tried to smooth its wet pages. Then came the tears. It was the first time I'd cried over a book. But this wasn't just a book. It was God's Word, and I'd wrecked it.

I don't remember if I continued to use that Bible the next few years or if I used another that my parents had on the bookshelf. But I remember the next Bible I was given.

It was my tenth birthday and we were in the car moving from Illinois to Arizona. I opened my presents in the backseat. I don't remember any of them except my new Bible. It was a grown-up version complete with thumb-tabs to help me find the various books. I loved that black, leather-bound Bible. I used it almost a decade and had it even longer than that. But somewhere along the way it got lost. I'm guessing it was probably during a move. I wish I still had it.

My grandparents had a tradition of giving their grandchildren a new Bible when they graduated from high school and I was no exception. Mine had a brown leather cover with my name engraved in gold on the lower right corner. I'd seen my older brother and sister get theirs and I eagerly anticipated receiving mine. That Bible was well used, as I'm sure Grandpa and Grandma hoped it would be. It saw me through marriage, the birth of my first two children, divorce, and several years of single parenting. It encouraged me and guided my days as I learned to live as a Christian adult.

One Sunday, I went to a different church with a friend. It was a huge church, much larger than I usually attended. I got up to leave at the end of the service and forgot my Bible on the pew. I remembered it before I even reached the parking lot, and turned back to get it, but it was gone. I sought help in finding it and was directed to the office lost and found. It hadn't been turned in. I was heartsick. I went back a week later and it still hadn't been returned. To this day I don't know what happened to it.

For the first time ever, I had to buy a Bible. I looked in the bookstore and found the version I wanted with just the right size print. I still think about all those old Bibles and how they got me started on the path of my spiritual journey and an intimate relationship with Jesus. When you give someone a Bible, you never know how it will impact their life. But with prayer, it just might make the difference between eternal life and death.

What is the most special Bible you've had? Tell us about it in the comments.

Linda

Friday, October 9, 2015

What's Your Pet Personality?

I've never been a pet person. I didn't have many pets growing up. But I'm the mother of Ashley, the pet princess, who would have loved a pet of every kind if we'd only let her. So who was I to deny the way God made her? He put that love of animals deep in her heart. So we have had pets. Lots of them, but not too many at one time, thank you.

We've had three dogs over her lifetime. One was a stray that no one claimed, so we kept her. Oreo was a black and white English setter who came to live with us before Ashley did. She used that as ammunition when asking for a pet a few years later. "But Mom, Oreo isn't my dog. You had her before I was born!" 

After Oreo died at the ripe old age of fourteen, we started looking for another dog. Oreo had been an "outside" dog. We only let her in when the temps got too cold at night, and then she slunk around with a guilt complex for being indoors. 

This time, we decided to get a small dog that could be an "inside" dog. My husband surprised me one afternoon while he and Ashley were out running errands by calling to say they found a cute black chihuahua puppy for sale. We went back to get her the next day and Ashley named her Kisses. She really would have preferred a big dog, but I said only a small dog in the house as long as she lives with us.

Sadly, Kisses died only five years later due to a liver disease. Saddest day ever. We decided to wait a little while before getting another dog. Maybe we could even get by without one. But it wasn't long until we realized how lonely the house was without a tail-wagger to greet us. There was no jingle of dog tags following us around. We started looking for our next dog. 

Kobi
We found a family on Craig's List whose chihuahua had just had a litter of pups. We went to see them and fell in love with the white and tan spotted puppies. We visited a couple more times before they were old enough to leave their mom. Soon, Kobi became part of our family. He was the cutest dog ever, and still is, even at five years old. Everyone says so. He even has his own Facebook page. Just type in Kobi and you'll see a handsome picture of him in his sweater. 

We have a few rules regarding dogs around here. Only small dogs in the house. We don't feed them people food, (though my husband always wants to break this rule). They sleep in their crate at night (usually). They aren't allowed in our laps at the table. 


All these boundaries have much to do with our personalities. What about you? Do you have pets? What kinds? What boundaries do you draw with your pets? Can they get on the furniture? Can they eat people food? Drink from the toilet? Are they outside pets? How much do the kids take care of them? Let's talk pets!

Linda


Friday, October 2, 2015

Children's Book Review: Understanding My Mormon Friends' Faith and Mine

Several years ago, my daughter had a Mormon friend who invited her to go to church with her. We said she couldn't go, but it wasn't easy explaining why, except that we didn't believe they taught what the Bible taught. We needed a resource that would help us explain to her why we wouldn't allow it.

Fortunately, there is such a resource. It helped us tremendously and it can help you, too. Understanding My Mormon Friends' Faith and Mine by Judy Robertson is a quick lesson in what Mormons (Latter-day Saints) believe versus what the Bible teaches. This short, 24-page book is written for kids, but it is expected that parents will read it with them and explain their own views on the covered topics.


The back cover lists seven areas that are covered in the book, illustrating the differences between the Mormon faith and Christianity.


Inside, the book gives a clear explanation of Mormon teachings and shows what the Bible says on these topics. It is easy to use and understand.



Though Understanding My Mormon Friends' Faith and Mine is written for children, it is also a good quick reference for teens and adults.

To learn more about Mormonism or how you can witness to your Mormon friends, go to www.concernedchristians.org.

This book is a clear, concise resource that helps your children understand that not all faiths are equal. It does matter what you believe. I found it very helpful in my family and I think you will, too.

Linda



Friday, September 11, 2015

Connecting the God Dots

I've started a new ministry adventure and feel God's fingerprints all over it. In order to tell you about it, I need to give you some background first. In looking back, I see several "God dots" that connect to what He's calling me to do. I've loved dot-to-dots since I was a kid. God dots are even better.

Dot 1: When I was in my 20s I got married and had a daughter. Then I had 2 miscarriages. When I became pregnant again, my doctor suggested I have an injection every week through my first trimester to help me sustain my pregnancy. I went faithfully every week and got the injection and successfully made it to my fourth month. Hallelujah!

Except, then my husband decided he didn't want to be married any more. What?! I'll avoid the drama here, but suffice it to say, I was shocked and devastated. I was in a much wanted pregnancy, but now found myself going it alone. A few months later I gave birth to a darling son.

Dot 2: Fast forward 15 years. My daughter was a senior in high school and told us she was pregnant. Not exactly what you hope to hear from your child. But there it was and we were determined to walk this road with her. Now, fourteen years later, we have a wonderful, handsome grandson to remind us of God's faithfulness.

Dot 3: A year ago, my husband and I received an invitation to attend a movie screening. The movie was one we'd hoped to see anyway, and we could see it for free this way, so we agreed to go. We're cheap that way! :) The catch was that there would be information shared by the Crisis Pregnancy Center and their upcoming Walk for Life event. I'd always respected the work they do and had even walked in a few of their events.

That day, I was so taken by their energy and God's spirit that my husband, Rollin, and I signed up to be ambassadors for our church to sign people up to walk in this event. I told Rollin that I always thought I'd like to volunteer for them some day.

Dot 4: About a month ago, I was at my church getting some things ready for a class I teach and a woman I didn't know showed up. My introverted self was glad she talked to someone else who was also working at the church rather than me. As I finished my work and started for my car, she did the same. We met in the parking lot and she greeted me warmly and introduced herself as Leslie Collins,the director of the Tempe, AZ Choices Pregnancy Center. What a divine coincidence. She gave me her business card and asked if I'd like to be added to their email list to receive CPC updates and prayer requests. Yes! I went home and friended her on Facebook.


Dot 5: A couple weeks ago I saw on Facebook that CPC was desperate for volunteers in Tempe center which was close to me. I felt a whisper in my ear, an urging in my heart, that I immediately knew was God's prompting. Still, I thought about it and prayed about it for about a week.

Dot 6: Another Facebook post said that a CPC volunteer training seminar would begin in September on Tuesday and Wednesday afternoons. Darn. I was going to be out of town that first Tuesday. I contacted Leslie. She said the classes didn't start until the Tuesday after I got back. I looked at my busy calendar. My schedule on every Tuesday and Wednesday afternoon was open. Perfect. So I took the plunge and signed up for the training.

I don't know exactly what God has in mind for me, but I feel good that I'm following where He's leading. I'm nervous, but also confident and excited, knowing that He who called me is faithful and he will do it (1 Thess. 5:24). Will you pray for me as I go through this training and open door of opportunity? And please join me in praying for CPC and it's ministry to women. They still need other volunteers. Is God calling you?

Linda




Friday, September 4, 2015

Labor Day



Labor Day weekend is upon us.  It's a strange tradition that we celebrate Labor Day by not laboring. I guess it's because we all deserve a day off after all our hard work. If you have a job, whether paying or not, be thankful. There are lots of people out there who would give anything to be able to support themselves and their families. Work is a gift that gives us dignity and purpose. Never take it for granted, no matter how menial or important your job may seem.

So, enjoy your Labor Day weekend. Stay safe. And don't forget to give thanks for your work.

Linda

Friday, August 28, 2015

No Regrets

As you read this, I'm visiting my husband's family in Minnesota. His dad is 92 and we hadn't seen him for over a year. It was waaay past time. We weren't sure the finances would work out, but we decided we needed to make it happen. The only thing that costs more than stretching the budget to take a trip to see loved ones is living with regret. So that's how I'm spending my weekend. How about you? Any fun plans on the horizon? In the meantime, here's a picture of my cute father-in-law.

Bet you're jealous.


Linda




Friday, August 21, 2015

7 Perks of Getting Older

By the time you read Monday's post, I will have turned another year older. I've never been one to mind birthdays. I mean, they're a gift, right? Every year gets a little better as far as I'm concerned. So yeah. I'll have 56 years under my belt. Here are some of the things I don't mind about it. In fact, I'm downright giddy about a few of these.
  1. I'm comfortable in my own skin. Never mind that it's not as taut as it used to be. It's mine, and I love the person God is molding me into. However flawed I am at this stage of the molding process, it's okay, because I'm still on the pottery wheel under the gentle touch of the master Creator.
  2. I've got a year's worth of practice ordering from the senior menu. It took me a while, but I am finally remembering that yes, I am a senior in most restaurants and yes, I can order from that cheaper menu with the more reasonably sized portions. And it's legal.
  3. My marriage is sweeter. I've always had a pretty good marriage, but with more time to ourselves now that the kids are mostly grown comes more time to dream, relax, work on projects, and just hang out together. There's a nice, easiness between us now that wasn't always present in the busier, more stressful days of raising kids. 
  4. My spiritual walk is deeper. Relying on God is less of a struggle in these middle-aged years than it used to be.  I am very much aware of how inept I am in many areas of my life. I have to depend on Him to bring me through. I've learned first-hand how useless worry is.
  5. I get to see my children grown up and thriving. All those years of parenting, correcting, guiding, loving my children? Worth it! Now I get to see the fruit of those hectic days and it's so rewarding. My kids aren't perfect. Neither is their mom. But I can see the wonderful people they are and know that all those endless hours, days, months, and years, added up to the sweetest success I've ever enjoyed. And I'm so proud and thankful.
  6. Gray looks good on me. Seriously, I'm too lazy to dye my hair. You can read another blog post I wrote about that here. But I'm finding a comforting satisfaction in seeing myself in the mirror and thinking, "Huh. So this is what you look like at 56." I am no super model. But I am made in the image of God and that's gotta be pretty good.
  7. I've learned to be a confident Grammy. Fourteen years ago I wondered what kind of grandma I'd be. My first grandchild came when my youngest child was only five. I wasn't sure I was ready for another little one again so soon. I was wrong. Let me be clear. I.Was. Wrong. I found out God equips new grandmas the same as he does new moms. He pours an overabundance of love into our hearts and never looks back. And wonder of wonders, grandchildren didn't make me feel older, as I'd feared, but younger. So now I lean into that role and love every minute of it. I've become confident in who I am as Grammy, just like I did as a mom.
So getting older isn't always so bad. Commercials may try to sell us things to make us look or feel younger, as if being older isn't something to which we should aspire As for me, I'm perfectly happy with middle-age.  I'm older, wiser, and happier than when I was a youngun'.

How about you? Are you happy at the life stage you're currently in? What are some of the perks of being your age?

Linda